Carol Ann Spencer, beloved mother, grandmother, and dedicated member of the Sag Harbor community, died peacefully in her home on October 18. She was 80.
Born on May 7, 1944, she was a loving and devoted mother to her two sons, Todd and Glen, and a cherished grandmother to her three grandchildren, Cassandra, Connor, and Riley. She was a guiding force in their lives, offering love, wisdom, and unwavering support.
She graduated with a B.S. in nursing from the University of Massachusetts, and for nearly 30 years, she served as the school nurse for the Sag Harbor School District, where she touched the lives of countless students and their families. Her compassion and care went far beyond the call of duty, and she was known for her ability to make everyone feel safe and comforted, whether it was for a scraped knee or a serious illness. Her dedication to the health and well-being of children was a testament to her nurturing spirit.
She was also deeply involved in the Sag Harbor community. As an active member of the First Presbyterian (Old Whalers’) Church in Sag Harbor, she gave her time and energy to countless church events, services, and initiatives. Her faith was a cornerstone of her life, and she found great joy in serving others through the church.
In addition to her work at the church, she was a tireless supporter of the Sag Harbor Community Food Pantry, where she volunteered to ensure that no one in her community went without the basic necessities. Her kindness and generosity knew no bounds, and she touched many lives through her service.
She will be remembered for her warmth, kindness, and selflessness. She leaves behind a legacy of love, compassion, and community spirit.
She will be forever remembered and deeply missed, her family said.
She was predeceased by her father, Frederick John Bollenbach; her mother Catherine Weidemann; and her brother, Daryl Bollenbach. She is survived by her brother Peter; sons, Todd and Glen; her grandchildren, Cassandra, Connor, and Riley; and a wide circle of family, friends, and community members.
A celebration of her life will be held at the First Presbyterian (Old Whalers’) Church in Sag Harbor on Wednesday, October 23, at 4 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the Sag Harbor Community Food Pantry (sagharborfoodpantry.org).
Staff Writer on Oct 22, 2024