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Annmary Larson Windels of Flanders Dies January 13

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Annmary Larson Windels

Annmary Larson Windels of Flanders died on January 13. She was 82.

She was born on April 21, 1942, in Bay Ridge.

She enjoyed a wonderful childhood, her family said, spending summers in Patchogue on Swan Lake Drive. Her father, Edward, taught her and her sister, Rosemary, to ride bikes, explore brooks, and ice skate. Her mother, Rose, instilled in her a love for cooking and nature—values she carried throughout her life.

In 1986, she founded the Immaculate Conception Preschool, where she served as head teacher for 24 years. Known affectionately as “Miss Annmary,” she shaped thousands of young lives and created beloved traditions, including the annual Christmas pageant and feast, which became a highlight of the community.

A woman of action and compassion, she was an early advocate for children with special needs and actively supported the fishing community that her husband and son were involved in. Her home was a hub of warmth and laughter, her family said, where her husband’s piano music filled the air, children searched for the “pickle” ornament on the Christmas tree, and her love kept everyone connected.

A deeply spiritual woman, she served as a Eucharistic minister at Immaculate Conception Church for over 20 years. She also established the Eucharistic ministry at the Westhampton Care Center, bringing her faith and compassion to those in its care. In her later years, she continued to share her warmth and kindness by reading over the phone to her daughter, Susanne, her best friend, Rose, and her “great-grandbabies,” ensuring her love was felt, even from afar.

Her bright smile and infectious laugh were hallmarks of her optimism and love for life, her family said. Her impact on her family, friends, and community will endure in the countless lives she touched and the beautiful memories she leaves behind.

She was predeceased by her husband, John H. “Jack” Windels Jr.; and her daughter, Susanne M. Windels. She is survived by her son, John H. Windels III; her daughter, Robin Ruggiero (James); her grandchildren, Kristina, Jake, Emily, Mary Rose, James, and Bella; and her great-grandchildren, Nina and Faith.

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