Anthony ‘Tony’ Frank Tomasheski, Formerly of Hampton Bays, Dies February 17

Anthony “Tony” Frank Tomasheski, formerly of Hampton Bays, died on February 17. He was 74.

He was born on December 29, 1950. Originally from Hampton Bays, he spent most of his life in Texarkana, Texas, where he was a fixture in the community for approximately 45 years. After serving in the U.S. Marine Corps, he spent time working on oil rigs and exploring the country on his motorcycle — true to the spirit of adventure that defined him.

He was known for his physical strength — a true force to be reckoned with. Nicknamed “Old Man” by local boxing fans, he competed in the Texarkana Quad State Toughman contest six times, even finishing as runner-up twice. But while his strength was undeniable, it wasn’t just his right hook that made him stand out — it was his heart.

For nearly 30 years, he was the friendly neighborhood mail carrier for the U.S. Postal Service, a role he embraced with pride. He preferred to walk his route, always with a smile and a kind word for everyone he encountered. He made people’s days just by being there. After his time with the post office, his hands stayed busy in construction, maintaining his strength and work ethic.

He was a simple man, his family said, and while he never indulged in many luxuries, he was rich in self-reliance. Never one to buy a new car, he drove the same vehicle for years and lived in the same house he bought in 1989. A self-taught handyman, he had a knack for fixing anything — from leaky plumbing to check-engine lights. If something broke, he would head to Harbor Freight and put his own hands to work.

And if a friend or neighbor needed help with their own projects, you could bet he was there with his toolbelt and a willingness to lend a hand. Whether it was installing a fence, fixing a roof, or getting the TV antenna just right before the big game, you could count on him to show up — no matter how big or small the job was. He always knew how to get the job done right.

When it was time to relax, he could often be found playing dominoes, strumming his guitar, or enjoying the outdoors — especially at Wright Patman Lake, where he spent many weekends. He was an avid reader, thoughtful inventor, and witty conversationalist.

He wasn’t just a strong man physically — he was strong in spirit, with a kind heart and a helpful hand. His death was unexpected, and he will be missed by all who knew him, his family said.

He is survived by his daughter, Kayli Tomasheski; his sister, Sue Loetscher; and his two nieces, Christine Loetscher Lamia and Casey Loetscher Ryckman. He also leaves behind his faithful dog, Boo Boo.

A celebration of his life will be planned this summer, when those who knew him will be encouraged to share their favorite memories and enjoy the outdoors. For details, please email celebratetony2025@gmail.com.