Chabad North Haven Opens Center For Jewish Life

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Miriam Lerman

Miriam Lerman

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 and Moshe Lerman sit in the space's kid area.  CHRIS PERAINO

and Moshe Lerman sit in the space's kid area. CHRIS PERAINO

Menucha Lerman shows her dad the challah bread she made at the center to her father

Menucha Lerman shows her dad the challah bread she made at the center to her father

 Rabbi Lerman.  CHRIS PERAINO

Rabbi Lerman. CHRIS PERAINO

From left to right: Miriam Lerman

From left to right: Miriam Lerman

 Menusha Lerman and Moshe Lerman

Menusha Lerman and Moshe Lerman

 Rabbi Lerman's children

Rabbi Lerman's children

Chris Peraino on Jul 25, 2017

Since its 2013 founding, Chabad North Haven has been restrained in its potential.There was no concrete meeting place. Rather, East End residents searching for a spiritual outlet met in a hodgepodge of accommodations: a person’s den one week, another individual’s kitchen the next—whatever made itself available. It was a communal effort, though one that stymied growth and outreach.

But with Sunday’s grand opening of the Center for Jewish Life at 36 West Water Street in Sag Harbor, members now have a permanent home of worship—one with promise.

“It enables us to take our efforts to a new level,” said Rabbi Berel Lerman, the spiritual leader of Chabad North Haven. “We like to say that there’s no metal detector, but a soul detector. Everyone has a degree of spirituality. We’re here to nourish it.”

The organization’s board recently signed a lease for the 3,600-square-foot space—previously used by John Jermain Memorial Library officials when the main building was undergoing extensive renovations—from Staller Associates, a property management company based in Islandia.

A search for a new space began in September, according to Emil Braun, a leading member in the center’s lease acquisition. Initially, the rent’s price point was out of range. But once Chabad North Haven detailed Mr. Braun’s and Mr. Lerman’s intentions—to create an open, friendly community space that fosters Jewish culture—the cost was knocked down a few pegs, they said.

“We were very fortunate in finding a friendly and reasonable property owner and manager who gave us the space at a tremendous value for us,” Mr. Braun said. “It gives us a home. It gives a presence. It gives us a face.”

The new center will remain open as long as organizers can afford the rent, a figure that Mr. Lerman declined to share but noted could rise significantly years down the road. He noted that the lot to the rear of the center, which faces the water, is currently unoccupied and unkempt. If that area is eventually built upon, rental costs could go up, he explained.

“I think that Sag Harbor is a booming town,” said Denise Wohl, an active member of several local Jewish groups and the main advocate pushing for Chabad North Haven to rent space in Sag Harbor. “It’s bustling with residents and tourists, and Chabad is built on outreach and education. I felt Sag Harbor needed it, really needed it. There’s a lot of mixed energy there.”

Mr. Lerman estimates that prior to having its own meeting space, the Chabad North Haven serviced roughly 150 families. With greater versatility, he expects that number to rise dramatically in the upcoming months. “Last weekend’s services were the most attended I’ve ever seen,” said Mr. Braun, noting that about 100 people attended Sunday’s opening reception.

The space also features attractive new amenities, including an art gallery that is now displaying the works of New York-based artists, and a kids space. The gallery is open from 10 a.m. until 2 p.m., Sunday through Friday, while the children’s programming is offered from 10:30 a.m. to 2 p.m. on Thursdays, Fridays and Sundays.

“It’s going to be multi-faceted, which is very exciting,” Ms. Wohl said of the house of worship.

Organizers are also offering certain programs and have invited special guests. Robert Lipsyte, an ESPN ombudsman and renowned sports writer, relayed a history of Jewish athletes at last weekend’s Shabbat, and plans are being made to fly in Israeli politicians for future lectures. A new art exhibition is already being planned for August as well.

“This is amazing,” Mr. Lerman said of the space’s potential. “Our goal is to create a beacon of light, education and Jewish culture that shines brightly in the Hamptons.”

Chabad is a Hebrew acronym for Chochmah, Binah, Da’at, which translates to “Wisdom, Understanding and Knowledge,” the movement’s guiding underpinnings. Also known as Lubavitch, Chabad is the largest Hasidic and Jewish religious organization in the world. Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, the seventh Rebbe of Chabad-Lubavitch, is credited with expanding the isolated Hasidic movement—then a Brooklyn pocket of Russian exiles—to the world’s most widespread Jewish movement in the 1950s. A portrait of him and his father, the sixth Rebbe of Chabad-Lubavitch, lay at the center’s reception desk.

Even though Mr. Lerman himself is Hasidic, and Chabad is a Hasidic organization, he welcomes those of all variations of spirituality and curiosity.

“It doesn’t say, ‘Love a fellow like yourself,’” Mr. Lerman said of a common Chabad phrase. “It says, ‘Love a fellow for who they are.’ This is a place where you are welcome for who you are.”

Shabbat services are offered at 6:45 p.m. every Friday, immediately followed by an Israeli wine tasting, and at 10 a.m. every Saturday, and those are followed by a Kiddush lunch.

“We have the best Kiddush in the Hamptons,” Mr. Lerman said. “I challenge anyone to come and beat it.”

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