Nathaniel ‘Pete’ Gelb of Water Mill Dies January 1

icon 1 Photo
Nathaniel ‘Pete’ Gelb

Nathaniel ‘Pete’ Gelb

authorStaff Writer on Jan 6, 2025

Nathaniel “Pete” Gelb died peacefully on New Year’s Day, at his home in Water Mill, surrounded by his family. He was 86.

Born in the Bronx on July 2, 1938, he lived most of his life in New York before settling in Water Mill in 1991, where he made his permanent home.

He began his career as a copy editor at The New York Times before moving into advertising. He worked as a copywriter at agencies like The Friedlich Agency, Rapp & Collins, and Wunderman, Ricotta & Kline. In the 1980s, he co-founded Bloom & Gelb, an innovative agency that pioneered direct mail fundraising for nonprofits, including The National Audubon Society, PBS, and AARP.

In the 1960s, he discovered the East End, where he fell in love with the area’s natural beauty. He bought and renovated a farmhouse in Southampton, sparking a lifelong passion for home renovation and design. Over the years, he built and lived in three more homes in Water Mill, each chosen for its private, picturesque setting.

He is survived by his wife, Nancy Grady; his children, Catherine (Adam Isacson), Thomas (Kelly Maginnis), Jane (Miles Cooper), and Laura; and his grandchildren, Ben, Jonathan, Margaret and August.

You May Also Like:

I Can Dish It Out

Our basement looks like the final scene in “Raiders of the Lost Ark,” where the (found) ark is crated and wheeled into the middle of a government warehouse with stacked crates going on for miles. In other words, we have a lot of stuff. This tracks. Mr. Hockey and I have been married for 36 (according to my calculator) years. We’ve had four (no calculator needed) pucks. We’ve lived in seven (according to my fingers) different homes in three (no calculator or fingers needed) countries. In 2010, we moved back to East Hampton full time. We brought everything we had ... 11 Dec 2025 by Tracy Grathwohl

The Urgency of Real

The Hamptons International Film Festival typically takes up a lot of oxygen in the fall on the South Fork, but it’s worth celebrating a slightly smaller but just as vital event in late autumn: the Hamptons Doc Fest. Running this week for its 18th year, the festival of documentaries was founded by Jacqui Lofaro and has become an essential part of the region’s arts scene every year. It’s a 12-month undertaking for Lofaro and her staff, and the result is always a tantalizing buffet of outstanding filmmaking, not to mention unforgettable stories. The arrival of the era of streaming services ... 10 Dec 2025 by Editorial Board

Proceed With Caution

Overlay districts are a common zoning tool used by many municipalities. Southampton Town has used them to varying degrees of success — the aquifer protection overlay district has been a winner; a downtown overlay district in Hampton Bays less so — in various parts of the town. They essentially look at the existing zoning, then allow those rules governing what can be done on properties to be reconsidered if there’s a newer concern to be addressed. In a bid to clean up the process for creating more affordable housing, the Town Board is looking at a new overlay district that ... by Editorial Board

Southampton Town Unveils Proposal To Allow Hotels To Rise Again

The Southampton Town Board is considering creating a new “floating zone” overlay district that could ... by Michael Wright

Southampton Awards $630,000 Grant to Housing for Autistic Adults

Autistic adults, their families and supporters burst into applause Tuesday afternoon when the Southampton Town ... by Michael Wright

Potential Disaster

It’s back — the federal government’s push to expand offshore oil drilling. The waters off Long Island are not in the plan, as of now. As the recent headline in Newsday reported: “Plan for New Oil Drilling Off Fla. and Calif. Coasts.” The subhead on the Associated Press article: “States push back as Trump seeks to expand production.” The following day, November 22, Newsday ran a nationally syndicated cartoon by Paul Dukinsky depicting President Trump declaring in front of a line of offshore wind turbines: “Wind Turbines Ruin the View!” Then there was Trump in front of a bunch of ... by Karl Grossman

Southampton School Board Approves Property Tax Break for Ocean Rescue Volunteers

Certain volunteer members of the Southampton Village Ocean Rescue squad can now apply for partial ... by Michelle Trauring

Majority of All-County Wrestlers Return for Southampton, Fueling Optimism

There’s positivity and excitement surrounding the Southampton wrestling room this winter. While one of its ... by Drew Budd

Zenie Takes Over Westhampton Beach Wrestling, Looks to Keep Momentum Going

Although there was a change at the top, the Westhampton Beach wrestling program is looking ... by Drew Budd

Benjamin ‘Shonowe Kellis Haile of the Shinnecock Nation Dies November 12

Benjamin Kellis Haile, “Shonowe”, 60, of the Shinnecock Indian Nation began his journey to the ... by Staff Writer